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Everyone Needs An Awesome Space: Asexuality After 30

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ace-muslim:

This post is for the August Carnival of Aces. A comment on ageism and some random thoughts about asexuals who don’t fit in the Tumblr community’s demographics.

In a recent discussion about acephobic views of asexuals, swankivy commented:

After all,…

Weirdly enough, when I was going to the Atlanta meetups at 19 I was by far the youngest person there—as I recall most people were somewhere in their mid twenties to thirties, and when I started going I was the only person under 21. 

I don’t actually have anything to add to the discussion linked here, which is really awesome to listen to as someone who is only 21 right now, but I thought the point about ageism in offline meetup groups was interesting. I guess I’d just been assuming that most ace meetup groups that weren’t actually attached to colleges skewed at similar ages to the one I went to. 

  1. vladdraculea reblogged this from ace-muslim and added:
    As an ace who am 43 and have largely neglected my tumblr for the past several weeks because my dash is so much younger...
  2. bamapolybiguy1 reblogged this from asexualexperiences and added:
    I am 42 and in the asexual spectrum (gray-A or demisexual; I don’t know which yet), and I’ve just recently come to that...
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    Reblogging because all the commentary is good, and also, if any of my followers are aces over 30, you are not alone!
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  12. ace-muslim reblogged this from queenieofaces and added:
    That’s a really good point about parents. I try not to think about it too much, but a person my age could have a child...
  13. writingfromfactorx reblogged this from myawesomespace and added:
    the Atlanta meetups...youngest person there—as...recall most...
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  15. myawesomespace reblogged this from queenieofaces and added:
    I’d just like to add that I am also a 30 year old asexual. And, if you think the whole ‘it’s just a phase’ thing is...
  16. queenieofaces reblogged this from ace-muslim and added:
    Hey, look, another Carnival of Aces submission! Plus it’s the other end of the spectrum from what I was talking about!...
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    Another datapoint: I’m 30 and ace, and would actually not have identified...I’d been...
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